Be strong, be independent because you are alone

"旁人如何看待根本不必煩惱，畢竟要收拾殘局的，都不會是在一旁指指點點的局外人"
from: http://okapi.books.com.tw/index.php/p3/p3_detail/sn/2160

The most useful line in these recent years. Keep this in mind. Except for your family and yourself, no one really cares about you. What kind of car/house you have, how pretty your gf is, which company you work for..... who cares?

The Great Gastby

"No one's past was meant to be used as a device for torture."

Woundering

When I was driving home, I was wondering that if I live my life like most people do. I supposed to have my own family now, but then? Is it good or bad? What else do I have?

Compromise

我想我還無法 compromise.

Loneliness

清晨醒來

突然的孤獨感  讓我想起Vancouver

一個人的孤獨

在這世界的哪個角落

有誰看到
有什麼不同

Dream

It's the first time I dreamed that dream. A little surprised, upset when I woke up

It's like something is gone from my life totally and what I have now are only memories.

世界雖然殘酷，我們還是....

This is what I'm wondering these days.....
"因為追求夢想，人生繞了一大圈很遠的路，但那不是他的錯，因為他真真實實地努力過" 

Another two sentences about love. It's obvious but people rarely can be like that (love yourself!). 
"當一個人在精神層次上自給自足之後，他的愛會變的非常自由，他可以愛別人，但是不求回報，他在愛別人的過程中得到快樂和滿足"  "如果你真的愛我的話，先把自己的人生過好"

Ps. it's a book worthy to read so far. Most topics are about this society from education to the tough working environment. Regarding the point view of the restrictions on us from the last generation and the Chinese culture, I feel so lucky that my parents never do plans which they thought we should obey. We always can make our own decisions. :)

Get up and keep moving

The most difficult thing is when you fail, when you feel upset, you still have to ask yourself to get up and have faith in yourself that you can achieve the goal even though you are exhausted already.

Take it easy

Life is hard and tough, but don't put too much pressure on yourself. There is nothing being a must to do. Just take a break when needed. :)

Some lines

life is meant to be shared

partnership is about compromise but it is also only true way to share

no partner is perfect

but we're just human anyway

don't need perfection

perfection is too selfish and self-centered

Lucky

I feel I'm so lucky i still have you all and am really touched because of your kind help. You all let me know how beautiful the world is. Wish me good luck... just a little more.